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Kacie lit a candle
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
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I miss you so much. Mom's doing good. We all are. We miss you every day. We talk about you all the time. It's still unbelievable. I cant wait to see you again. I have so much to tell you guys. I feel you with us always especially in the car. So I know you are keeping us safe. We saw a blue butterfly. You visited each of us. We absolutely loved that!! Keep doing things to let us know you are around. I love you bubba ❤️
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Caitlin and Kacie, Mama lit a candle
Saturday, July 22, 2023
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Jacob lit a candle
Friday, March 10, 2023
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Bubba I love and miss you times are tough life is beating me but I remember all of our talks I remember things you have told me I have to stay strong everything comes my way I handle it some stuff I have trouble handling it I wanna do better and be there for everyone it's hard wish you were here I could really use one of your talks I bust my tail everyday hopefully it will all work out I miss you man watch over us all me momma granny and Caitlin
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Kacie lit a candle
Friday, October 28, 2022
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Bubba, I still miss you everyday. I love you fiercely. You deserved so much better than life ever gave you. I pray for you, daddy and Angie. I hope you are all together. Things here are a mess but I'm pushing through. Please keep watching us. I love you forever.
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Kacie uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 19, 2020
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It's 4:07 am and you are heavy on my mind. Mom's sick Jerry. I don't know what's going to happen to us but I need you to come around us and watch for Momma. It's not good. You left us way too early. We are all still broken. I love you bubba with all of my heart. ♥️
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Kacie uploaded photo(s)
Friday, July 24, 2020
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It's been a whole year that you've been gone but it still feels like yesterday that we got that knock on the door that destroyed our lives. Me and Caitlin were driving home from the store yesterday the 22nd at around 5:30 the time you passed away and a black cloud came over us, the wind started blowing so bad, the leaves from trees were blowing them all around us and I knew you were there. I knew it was you. It rained the day you passed. That's how it happened. Then the exact same day and time 1 year apart.. I know it was you..I took Momma outside so she could see it and it made her smile. Keep coming to us please? Jerry, I love you so much. I miss you all the way in my soul. People say it will get easier but it's not. I'm still in shock and still angry. We all miss you every moment of every day until our final breaths in this world and we join you, daddy and Angie.
Your sister.
Kacie
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Kacie vance uploaded photo(s)
Monday, June 22, 2020
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I miss you so much Bubba. I still can't believe you aren't here with us. I can't accept it. I know it's real but I just can't believe it I still feel as much pain as I did from day one. Nothing will ever make this pain lessen. I just want you to come home now. I blame everyone. I wish you never would have met the people you did. I wish you never went to work in Troy. I wish you would of stayed home and not went to enterprise because honestly you'd still be here. Mom, Caitlin, Jacob and i's life will never be the same. We could never move on. Nothing comforts us and nothing ever will until we see you, daddy and Angie again. I hope you are taking care of cletus up there for me. I feel like you are giving me signs that you are still around me and I want you to know that I see them and they do bring a smile to my face. Jacob graduated from high school. You always pushed him to not give up and finish school. I wish you could of been there but I know in your own way you were. I know you are so proud of him. He misses you. We all miss you. Caitlin wears your necklace everyday. She never takes it off. Out poor momma, Jerry her heart is so broken. I'm trying to take care of everyone. It's overwhelming but I'm doing it. I never pictured our lives without you. Its crazy to think about it really. My life plan always had you in it. It never crossed my mind that we could lose you. You left a hole in our hearts that could never be repaired and I will grieve you for the rest of my life. You are the best brother I could of ever asked for. Stay around okay? Keep giving me those signs because my life can't be without you still around. I need you so I can be strong like you were. I love you for eternity. My sweet, hard headed, bubba, I miss you.
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Kacie vance lit a candle
Monday, August 5, 2019
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I miss you more than words I could possibly write. I love you more than you could ever know.
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Angel Vance posted a condolence
Monday, July 29, 2019
Oh I am heart broken to know you have passed. I love you and have missed you so much. I hope your in peace with the rest of the family. I love you Cuz.
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Jacob vance posted a condolence
Saturday, July 27, 2019
Hey Bubba I love you and I miss you very much I got almost all your stuff and I'm being strong for you I always remember the time you hugged me and told me that to be strong for you and I am I'm going to make you and everyone else proud of me i know I'm hard headed sometimes but no matter what you saw the best in me and I love you for that I couldn't have a better buddy and uncle..but it is more than that we're more than uncle and nephew more than friends more than anything the amount of connection we had for each other was amazing we were soo close you taught me everything I know today and you continue to teach me even through this I'm learning more and more every day I promise you this I will be somebody i know sometimes you thought I didn't listen to the lectures you gave me but even if it didn't seem like it I did and I'm constantly thinking about what you told me or what would you do I'm glad that we got to do a lot of the things we planned out before all of this happened and I wouldn't wanna do it with anyone else you are my everything you were there when my dad wasn't.....you are more of a dad to me than anyone and I respect you and I thank you for turning me into the man I am today I won't let you down I promise you that...and while you're up there tell Paul Paul and Angie I miss them and catch sum fish and find sum arrow heads for me I'll look at them when I get there and we'll laugh and go walk through the rivers and woods but until that time watch down upon me and the family and please guide me and keep us safe i know you always wanted the best for us and I'll do everything I can to keep them safe and I hope to be at least half the man you are i look up to you I love you forever and always.
I love you Bubba.
Love,
Jacob
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Kacie vance uploaded photo(s)
Friday, July 26, 2019
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Kacie vance uploaded photo(s)
Friday, July 26, 2019
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Kacie vance posted a condolence
Friday, July 26, 2019
My dear sweet brother,
I miss you every second of every day. You were my best friend for 38 years. I can still remember when you use to walk me to my class room and I'd always hold your pinky finger. I remember us sitting at our kitchen table and you teaches me my time tables. 1 x 1 is 2. I. Remember us walking in the woods where there was a little creek and you just jumped over it like it was nothing but I was scared and you hollared across to me. " if you were my sister you'd do it" and boy did I jump because I was always proud to be your sister. The time you drovebus in Daddys white Dodge ram to Elba to pick up BBQ and you blasted Sweet Home Alabama as lous as it would go. Or when we'd watch movies especially "Johnny Dangerously" and you'd tap your knuckles on my cheek and say "you little muskrat". Or all the times my car died and you'd come from cities over just to rescue me. You don't know how much I wish I could of rescued you. I'd give anything to have you back. I remember when you were in high school and I entered 7th grade and we were finally in the same school together. Your friends would come down the hall and say hey little Vance. Or how in the morning waiting for the best you'd be singing the. Dark Wing Duck theme song. Or when we finally got off the bus in the afternoon we would fuss because I'd want to watch saved by the bell but you'd want to watch Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. I'd watch that now without even fussing for you. You were the best big brother I could have ever asked for. I hot the sibling jackpot by having you. I'm so sorry this happened to you when you were the happiest you had ever been. You didn't deserve this. I never in a million years thought id lose you. I went to your truck. It's in pieces but I managed to climb into the little spot where you died and I dug around and wiggled and forced myself into the smallest places to get all of your important papers and the tools you loved so much. It was traumatic for me seeing the aftermath of what took you away from us but I hope you're proud of me and Caitlin for doing that. We all miss you more than I could even type. I will continue to take care of momma, Caitlin, Jacob, cletus and Lil bit for you. I will keep looking out for Chastity and Leanne. I love you Bubba and until my last breath I will love and protect your memory fiercely.
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Adrian and Judy Holman lit a candle
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
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May Jerry's soul rest in peace.
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Jessica Barnes posted a condolence
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
To Jerry's family... I only had the opportunity to meet Jerry a couple of times while working at Candlewood Suites in Enterprise, Alabama... But I can tell you this, he came into my best friend's life and changed it for the better. He loved her and her daughter unconditionally and from what I saw, he was a great a person. I don't think telling you all that I am sorry for your loss would be enough to cover the devastation you are all feeling... However... God takes the good early and we will never understand why... Accept for maybe, they are just to pure for this world. I will keep you all in my prayers and thoughts as you try to process and navigate this tragedy your family is experiencing.
Chas... I don't know why you are experiencing this and I absolutely hate that you are... There are no words that can take this pain you are feeling away. But still, I will try... I will never forget the smile that lit up your face when you expressed to me that you loved Jerry and that he was good to you and Leanne. You deserve that, both of you... And for it to be taken away from you both, breaks my heart. I'll be here... When you can't stand, I will help you stand... Remember that you are not alone in this and that I am always just a phone call away. I love you like the sister I was meant to have. And Jerry is looking down on you, the sun will be the warmth of his love...so bask in it... The moon and stars a reminder from him that you made it through another day. Just look around you and you will find signs of him everywhere. In the words of Albus Dumbledore- The ones that love us never truly leave us. You can always find them in your heart. -
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The family of Jerry Wayne Vance Jr. uploaded a photo
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
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